2018: pay attention

Something I’ve done the past 6 years in January is pray and ask the Lord what word or theme I need to focus on in the new year.  It’s been a sweet way to focus on one thing throughout the year that I want to grow in. Some years the words have not had a huge impact on me, but there are years that the words really came alive!

2013 MY WORD WAS GIVE.

2014 WE DID A WORD TOGETHER + IT WAS “LIVING ALIVE”.

OUR WORD FOR 2015 RECEIVE.

OUR FAMILY WORD FOR 2016 WAS THRIVE.

MY WORDS FOR 2016 WERE GATHER + BE.

MY WORDS FOR 2017 WERE LIFE + LAUGHTER.

This is the year of “paying attention”!

It all started when I was listening to a video from Edie Wadsworth (if yall don’t know her, go follow her NOW!) when she was talking about “listening to your life”.  I took a day in December to drive to Austin by myself for some self care time, and used that time away to really process and think about what I wanted to focus on in 2018.  at first I thought about “story”, because I want to be a better storyteller in my life.  but then I kept hearing (and reading) the words PAY ATTENTION and I thought, YES! this is it!

I want to pay attention to why I feel the way I do.

I want to pay attention to my kids + husbands needs more

I want to pay attention to my needs more

I want to pay attention to the stories I tell myself

I want to pay attention to our finances….

and to analytics, and business decisions, and what’s working + whats not

I want to pay attention to how often my son has tantrums

and how often I am nursing, and eating, and sleeping, and sabathathing

I want to PAY ATTENTION to my life, and not just grow organically, but on purpose.

I ordered a few May Designs notebooks that I keep in various places with the words “pay attention” on top of them.  I am purposefully keeping track of things, and it is good.  it’s going to take discipline and consistency – but I AM CAPABLE (see what I did there? practicing affirmations with my words!) and if I miss a day, well then grace (see, self compassion!)

what about you?  what is YOUR WORD(s) for the year?  

if you don’t know yet – take the advice that was given to me, and listen to your life.  take some time to be still, quiet, and contemplate.  whether you need to go for a drive, listen to music, go for a run, or sit with a pen and your journal open- make the time to DO IT, and see what speaks to you.

I can’t wait to hear!

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  1. Stephen says:

    Great post babe!! Listen to your life!!! I love it!!

  2. Amy says:

    I’m working on my blog post about this very thing! Mine last year was “regardless…” and I was struggling not only with all that hastened last year, but how this year could change… and then I heard it clearly. Can’t wait to share 🙂 Thank you for sharing!

  3. […] it started in 2013 with give, then 2014 was living alive, 2015 was all about receiving, 2016 was gather+be, 2017 was life + laughter, then this last year was the year of paying attention. […]

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